Hello:
A few days ago in one of the local papers a guy had at least 3 women on the go with his "open" marriage. One of which was the real thing with one or two children. One of the "other" women wanted to know if she should continue with this situation.
Here is my answer.
Obviously you do not have a very high opinion of yourself to ask such a question. Why not try this. Since he is lying to you about his real intentions, [to obtain as much sex as possible with the least amount of commitment to as many women as possible], tell him that you have two other lovers and see what his reaction is. Or tell him that you would like to become a Mother and see if he suddenly distances himself from you.
Rather than waste time with the above two suggestions, I would be more inclined to dump the guy as soon as possible. When it comes to finding a new man, some of them are more fragile than you might think and they have a tough time with rejection.
Hold your head up high and find someone who you think would make a good partner and if he seems reluctant to show any interest, step up to the plate yourself and show him that you are interested in him. If that scenario fails, --- move on to the next best choice until you do succeed.
For those men who have a high level of fear about being rejected, such bold action on your part might be just what is needed to break the ice. You are much better than you have been giving yourself credit for. Good luck and do your best to remember this simple fact. There are too many hiders in this world and not enough seekers.
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